The study purpose was to assess, in a U.S. probability sample of women, the specific ways women have discovered to make vaginal penetration more pleasurable. Through qualitative pilot research with women that informed the development of the survey instrument used in this study, we identified four previously unnamed, but distinct, techniques women use to make vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing. This study defines each technique and describes its prevalence among U.S. adult women. Weighted frequencies were drawn from the Second OMGYES Pleasure Report—a cross-sectional, online, national probability survey of 3017 American women’s (age 18–93) sexual experiences and discoveries. Participants were recruited via the Ipsos KnowledgePanel®. Data suggest that 87.5% of women make vaginal penetration more pleasurable using ‘Angling’: rotating, raising, or lowering the pelvis/hips during penetration to adjust where inside the vagina the toy or penis rubs and what it feels like. Approximately 76% of women make vaginal penetration more pleasurable using ‘Rocking’: the base of a penis or sex toy rubbing against the clitoris constantly during penetration, by staying all the way inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out. About 84% of women make vaginal penetration more pleasurable using ‘Shallowing’: penetrative touch just inside of the entrance of the vagina—not on the outside, but also not deep inside—with a fingertip, sex toy, penis tip, tongue, or lips. Finally, 69.7% of women orgasm more often or make vaginal penetration more pleasurable using ‘Pairing’: when a woman herself (Solo Pairing) or her partner (Partner Pairing) reaches down to stimulate her clitoris with a finger or sex toy at the same time as her vagina is being penetrated. These data provide techniques that are at women’s disposal to make penetration more pleasurable—which can enable women to better identify their own preferences, communicate about them and advocate for their sexual pleasure.
Citation: Hensel DJ, von Hippel CD, Lapage CC, Perkins RH (2021) Women’s techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Results from a nationally representative study of adult women in the United States. PLoS ONE 16(4): e0249242. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0249242
Editor: Andrew R. Dalby, University of Westminster, UNITED KINGDOM
Received: October 13, 2020; Accepted: February 17, 2021; Published: April 14, 2021
Copyright: © 2021 Hensel et al. This is an open access article distributed under the terms of the Creative Commons Attribution License, which permits unrestricted use, distribution, and reproduction in any medium, provided the original author and source are credited.
Data Availability: All raw data files used in this study are available from the Inter-university Consortium for Political and Social Research (ICPSR) open data sharing consortium (“OMGYES Women’s Pleasure Study-Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing Items”: https://doi.org/10.3886/E128421V2).
Funding: This study was funded by For Goodness Sake, LLC (https://www.fgsake.org/). The funders had a role in study design, data collection and analysis, decision to publish, and in preparation of the manuscript.
Competing interests: I have read the journal’s policy and the authors of this manuscript have the following competing interests: Dr. Hensel is a consultant with For Goodness Sake, LLC. This does not alter our adherence to PLOS ONE policies on sharing data and materials.
This paper engages nationally representative data to understand U.S. adult women’s preferences for vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques as a means of increasing sexual pleasure. Holistic approaches to sexual health increasingly emphasize the positive contributions that sexual pleasure–particularly for women–provides to physical, social and emotional well-being [1, 2] across the lifespan [3, 4]. For example, research has shown that sexual pleasure contributes to women’s reports of greater happiness, and lower levels of depression, stress and anxiety [5–7]. Literature has also linked sexual pleasure within partnerships to greater relationship satisfaction, intimacy, and commitment for women [7–10].
Viewing sexual pleasure as a critical scaffold to women’s well-being is important because it reframes their enjoyment of sex as a fundamental human right, rather than as a medical or psychological problem to be “solved” [11, 12]. Several international sexual and reproductive health organizations, including The World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) and the International Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF), explicitly include “pleasurable” and “satisfying” sexual experiences within their declarations on sexual rights . A pleasure-as-rights orientation is a person-centered way of approaching sexual pleasure. Person-centered perspectives seek to understand the subjectivity of each woman’s lived experiences of pleasure, including the development of skills—such as communication, confidence, and the ability to negotiate with partners—that increase her agency to access enjoyable sex [11, 14, 15]. Sexual pleasure research can support person-centered perspectives by assessing granularity of what makes sex enjoyable for each women, rather than making the assumption that the same handful of approaches work equally well for all women [16–18].
However, despite the increased interest in supporting a more person-centered approach in women’s sexual pleasure research, much of the extant scientific literature lacks the detailed information necessary to foster a more comprehensive understanding of how pleasure experiences are organized. Most of the existing research broadly focuses on the body part or object that stimulates or penetrates the vagina (e.g. a penis, a hand/finger, or a sex toy, etc.) , rather than documenting the specific vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques women themselves report using for pleasure , or any technique innovations, or variations, that women use to make them more pleasurable or easier for them to use on their own or with a partner  For example, studies from the United States, Canada, Australia and Germany have shown that vaginal use of vibrators, dildos and other sex toys among heterosexual, gay/lesbian and bisexually identified adult women are associated with greater sexual pleasure and satisfaction during solo or partnered sex [22–25]. Other work engaging adult samples from the United States, China, Australia and Sweden has examined the extent to which a wider sexual repertoire, including both penile-vaginal sex and noncoital sexual behaviors, such as giving/receiving oral sex or manual stimulation, is associated with greater likelihood of women’s orgasm, sexual satisfaction or sexual enjoyment [26–32]. A smaller number of studies have also investigated bondage, domination, submission/sadism, and masochism (BDSM) or “kink” vaginal penetration behaviors (e.g. fisting or stretching) as a source of sexual arousal or eroticism [25, 33, 34]. Neither the sex toy- nor the sexual behavior-focused bodies of work elicited more granular information from participants about specific ways in which techniques were used to increase pleasure.
Other research investigates the extent to which body positioning (e.g. the “coital alignment technique” as well as more colloquially known terms like “face-to-face” or “rear entry”) matters for women’s sexual pleasure [35–37]. This body of research, however, is limited to penile-vaginal penetrative acts between a man and a woman and does not provide more detailed information about how variations in body movement (e.g., staying inside vs. thrusting, rotating vs. remaining still) may be associated with sexual pleasure. An additional line of research has documented the extent to which manual clitoral stimulation is done simultaneously with penile-vaginal penetration to augment pleasure and orgasm [38–40], but this research has not fully examined whether this clitoral stimulation is woman-controlled, partner-controlled or a combination of the both, nor has it examined whether the clitoral stimulation is done with a finger or sex toy.
Absent detailed and robust person-centered empirical data on women’s sexual pleasure approaches in the scientific literature, women and/or their partners may be left to rely on non-scientific sources, such as popular print or electronic media, to inform their expectations about which stimulation and penetration techniques they can and should use to enjoy sex. Studies on these non-scientific sources suggest that they often focus on a handful of the “most effective” or “right” techniques , often in slang (e.g. “finger banging”) [42, 43] or ambiguous terms (e.g. “foreplay” or “outercourse”) [44, 45] or overly clinical terms (“manual-genital stimulation” or “G-spot stimulation”) [19, 46, 47] Common terms rarely acknowledge a wider repertoire of vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques that women can and do use for pleasure as part of their solo and partnered sex lives .
Collectively, neither popular media nor current scientific literature fully represent the range of vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques women and partners use or the details of how they tweak and personalize the techniques they use in order to enhance their pleasure. A lack of both educational and informational alternatives to these existing sources matters because optimizing sexual health means that individuals need to be empowered to seek out the pleasure promoting techniques that meet their needs, rather than falling back on what literature/media tells them they “should” like or what they expect is “most likely” to be enjoyable .
Nationally representative studies–with a focus on detailed sexual touch and stimulation techniques–are a powerful method to fill the identified gaps. From a measurement perspective, inclusion of a range of penetration variants currently unexplored in peer-reviewed research provides a means by which to validate the range of pleasure approaches that women use in daily life. Researchers can provide data that identify multiple techniques, give those techniques names, and develop descriptions of how the application of a given technique differs from that of another. Such specificity has the potential to directly address the ambiguity and efficiency challenges of existing language used to describe vaginal stimulation and penetration. For example, as described earlier, ambiguous, slang-based, or overly clinical terms [19, 41–47, 49] are often used in scientific and popular media to describe stimulating or penetrating the vagina. Inaccessible vocabulary can present substantial barriers to a woman’s ability to accurately describe to a partner what techniques she would like to use, and how she would like them performed . This ambiguity could likewise impede a woman’s individual learning of how to amend existing sexual techniques she likes, or to learn new techniques. In addition, accurate language is important because the words people use to describe an activity help shape the meaning they ascribe to it . A woman having access to a wider stimulation and penetration vocabulary may increase her satisfaction with her sexual communication with partners [51, 52], which in turn may have positive implications for both relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction [53–55].
From a sampling perspective, sexual pleasure literature has typically been conducted with convenience or community samples, samples drawn from clinical populations, or from college campuses [26, 56–59]. Several nationally representative studies document generally link a range of sexual behaviors to sexual pleasure [27–31], but they do not use detailed stimulation and penetration technique measures. Engaging large, nationally representative studies that include these detailed items allows researchers to evaluate both the prevalence of and patterns within specific pleasure approaches in ways that reflect the experiences of all women in a population. This presentation is helpful for individuals to be able to see their own preference(s) normalized within a range of other techniques, as well as to see the extent to which their experiences are shared by their peer group.
These measurement and sampling strengths of nationally representative studies are exemplified in the first OMGYES Pleasure Report—a nationally representative study that members of our team conducted to examine, in detail, American adult women’s experiences with and preferences for external genital touch and stimulation . Rather than asking participants whether or not they liked to be touched externally, the study demonstrated that women use different ways of touching–different locations, pressure, shapes and patterns–as a means of increasing their sexual enjoyment. The authors noted that assessing the range and complexity of external touch dimensionality in peer-reviewed literature normalizes the specific, but different axes on which “typical” women engage external touch, and at an individual level, provides specific and actionable ideas that women and partners can choose to integrate into their own repertoire. Such data illustrate the need for ongoing studies to provide data to document sexual pleasure pathways.
Accordingly, the purpose of the current study was to use nationally representative probability data–the second OMGYES Pleasure Report–to investigate U.S. women’s preferences for internal touch, specifically vaginal stimulation and penetration.
Materials and methods
The design of survey items for the second OMGYES Pleasure Report began with a large scale, exploratory qualitative study (2014–2015; IRBs # 2003603806 and 2004356627) to broadly generate information about women’s discoveries and experiences with genital stimulation and sexual pleasure. We conducted a series of initial, broad, online surveys of 4270 adult (18+) women from around the world, recruited through social media advertisements. Potential participants clicked on a link to the survey in the advertisement and responded in text boxes to open-ended questions such as “What discovery have you made that really made vaginal penetration more pleasurable for you?” A subset of approximately 1000 women participated in follow-up interviews conducted via video chat. These secondary, semi-structured interviews were focused on eliciting more detail about the specific strategies, insights, and techniques respondents had found pivotal to increasing their sexual pleasure. Interviews ranging between 15 and 60 minutes in length, were conducted and recorded by OMGyes researchers. Data from these interviews were analyzed by OMGyes research staff and consultants using an inductive constructivist thematic analysis framework to identify where and/or how similarities emerged in the ways in which women enjoy specific aspects of sexual touch and vaginal stimulation . This approach of identifying, analyzing, and reporting patterns/themes is particularly suitable for nuanced exploratory work in understudied areas  Numerous techniques that women use to enhance their pleasure during penetration emerged—most under described in the current literature; the present analysis focuses on four of these techniques. We searched existing scientific and popular sexual pleasure literature for established terms that described those four technique forms, and we were unable to find such existing language. Therefore, we gave each form a descriptive name—Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, and Pairing. Definitions and sexually explicit line drawing illustrations of these four techniques are provided in S1 Table. Images contained in this table are visually graphic.
In the next stage of development, and the focus of the current study, was the development of a quantitative survey to investigate the population level prevalence of women who report using the Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing and their sub-forms. The description of all items on our survey is presented in the next section. All items are original to this study—as informed by our exploratory qualitative work—and have not been yet examined in the peer-reviewed literature.
All study procedures were approved by the institutional review board at Indiana University School of Medicine (IRB # 1801846511). Data were drawn from the second OMGYES Pleasure Report—a cross-sectional, online, nationally representative survey of sexual behaviors, sexual attitudes, relationships, sexual satisfaction, and experiences with genital touching among women aged 18 and over in the United States. The study was conducted in July 2018 by Ipsos Research using their KnowledgePanel® (Menlo Park, California) to recruit a probability-based web panel designed to be representative–including an oversample of lesbian and bisexual women–of all noninstitutionalized U.S. women. Ipsos creates research panels using an address-based sampling (ABS) frame from using the U.S. Postal Service’s Delivery Sequence File–a database with full coverage of all delivery points in the US. ABS not only improves population coverage, but also provides a more effective means for recruiting hard-to-reach individuals, such as young adults, those without landline telephones, and minorities. Panel member households without internet connection are provided with a web-enabled device and free Internet service to maximize the breadth of participation.
The 90-item online survey took a median of 29 minutes to complete, was available in English and Spanish languages, and was open for participation from July 12-July 31, 2018. Questions assessed participation in demographics, sexual behavior background, as well as lifetime participation in different types of Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, and Pairing techniques. Participants could also access clickable pop-up illustrations provided for some techniques within the survey. Panel households (N = 6123) randomly selected to participate were sent an email that informed them of the survey’s availability and provided them a link to the survey. KnowledgePanel® members typically only receive one survey per week, with an average of two to three per month. Reminder emails were sent to survey non-responders (on Days 3, 9, 12, 15 and 18) during the study period. Of the original households recruited (N = 6123), 3398 (55.5%) opened the study link, where they were able to view detailed information about the study. If they wanted to participate, they could open an informed consent statement to read. Those who wanted to continue clicked “I agree” to indicate electronically recorded consent with Ipsos. Of those who opened the study link, 88.8% (3017/3398) completed the survey (49.7% [3017/6123] of the initial sampling frame) and represent the analytical sample in this study. This completion rate is similar to other Ipsos-conducted nationally representative studies of sexuality and sexual behavior (44% - 51%) [32, 50, 51, 62]. Ipsos operates a modest incentive program that includes raffles and sweepstakes with both cash rewards and other prizes for completing the survey.
Ipsos provided post-stratification, study-specific weights to adjust for any over- or under-sampling as well as non-response. Distributional data pertinent to the study population were obtained either from the U.S. Census Bureau’s American Community Survey (ACS), or from the weighted KnowledgePanel® profile data. Using this information, final weights were calculated using an iterative proportional fitting procedure, and if necessary, were trimmed at the extreme upper and lower tails of the weight distribution. The resulting weights were then scaled to aggregate to the total sample size of all eligible respondents. Weighted participant characteristics are described in Table 1. All data used in this study are available through the ICPSR open data sharing consortium .
Questions about Angling were prefaced in the survey with a statement that said: “Many women have discovered that, during vaginal intercourse with a toy or penis, the angle or position of their hips makes a big difference in where the toy or penis rubs and what it feels like.” Participants then indicated through yes/no responses to 6 items whether or not they had ever used sub-forms of Angling “to make sex better / more pleasurable during penetration.” An affirmative response to any of the 6 items indicated a woman had used any form of Angling to enhance her pleasure during vaginal penetration. An affirmative response to one or more of three specific items (“rotating hips downward while on back;” “rotating hips upward while lying on stomach;” “putting a pillow under lower back so pelvis is lower”) (all: no/yes) indicated use of the sub-form of Angling referred to as ‘Angling hips low;’ these three items were grouped into this sub-form category because the direction of rotation of the pelvis (colloquially ‘hips’) is mechanically equivalent whether performed while lying on one’s stomach or back (with or without a pillow to support rotation). Similarly, an affirmative response to one or more of the three remaining specific items (“rotating hips upward while lying on back;” “rotating hips downward while lying on stomach;” “putting a pillow under butt so pelvis is higher”) (all: no/yes) indicated use of the sub-form of Angling referred to as ‘Angling hips high;’ again, these three items were grouped into this sub-form category because the direction of rotation of the pelvis/hips is mechanically equivalent whether performed while lying on one’s stomach or back (with or without a pillow to support rotation).
Questions about Rocking asked women about the extent to which they had ever found pleasurable (all: four-point Likert scale: not pleasurable to very pleasurable; or “don’t know or never tried”) two different methods of penetration in which the base of a partner’s penis or a sex toy rubbed against the clitoris constantly during penetration, by staying all the way inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out. The sub-form of Rocking done with a penis (‘Rocking with a penis’) was assessed with the following item: “a partner’s penis “staying inside” with their lower body staying in contact and pressing against your clitoris.” The sub-form of Rocking done with a sex toy (‘Rocking with a sex toy’) was assessed with the following item: “a toy “staying inside” your vagina without in-and-out thrusting.” All items were dichotomized (not at all/a little pleasurable vs. somewhat/very pleasurable) for analysis and women who answered “don’t know or never tried” were excluded. A response of somewhat/very pleasurable to at least one Rocking item indicated a woman had used any form of Rocking to enhance her pleasure during vaginal penetration.
Questions about Shallowing asked women about the extent to which they had ever found pleasurable (all: four-point Likert scale: not pleasurable to very pleasurable; or “don’t know or never tried”) different methods of being touched “just inside, at the entrance of your vagina (just shallow penetration—not on the outside, but also not deep inside).” The four items relating to specific Shallowing sub-forms were: “with a fingertip,” “with a sex toy,” “with the tongue or lips,” and “with the tip of the penis.” All items were dichotomized (not at all/a little pleasurable vs. somewhat/very pleasurable) for analysis and women who answered “don’t know or never tried” were excluded. A response of somewhat/very pleasurable to at least one Shallowing item indicated a woman had used any form of Shallowing to enhance her pleasure during vaginal penetration.
Women who had used any form of Shallowing to enhance their pleasure from penetration were also asked whether Shallowing changed their sexual pleasure in different scenarios. Participants were shown the statement: “Some women say that having the tip of a penis, sex toy, or fingers just inside the entrance to the vagina (with shallow penetration), even briefly, changes how pleasurable the sex or sexual touching that follows feels.” Women then indicated whether any of the following pleasure experiences had occurred (all: no/yes) for them during sexual stimulation after Shallowing: “the penetration that comes next is more likely to be pleasurable;” “the orgasm that comes next is more likely to be stronger or more intense;” “the orgasm that comes next is more likely to happen at all;” “it depends—there is no consistent pattern.”
Questions about Pairing asked women to indicate through yes/no responses to 4 items whether or not they had ever used sub-forms of Pairing (i.e. specific forms of clitoral touch in combination with vaginal penetration) to “orgasm more often or have more pleasurable sex” than from using penetration on its own. Sub-forms of Pairing where the clitoral touch was done by the woman herself (‘Solo Pairing’) were assessed with the following 2 items (all: no/yes) “penetration while stimulating my own clitoris at the same time with a finger;” “penetration while stimulating my own clitoris at the same time with a toy or vibrator.” Sub-forms of Pairing where the clitoral touch was done by the woman’s partner (‘Partner Pairing’) were assessed with the following items (all: no/yes): “penetration with my partner stimulating my clitoris at the same time with a finger;” “penetration with my partner stimulating my clitoris at the same time with a toy or vibrator.” An affirmative response to any of the 4 items used to assess sub-forms of Pairing indicated a woman had used any form of Pairing to enhance her pleasure during vaginal penetration.
Weighted frequencies were calculated to assess the prevalence of women who have used Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, Pairing, and their sub-forms to make vaginal stimulation and penetration more pleasurable. We excluded from analysis of each item any participant whose response to that item was missing. IBM SPSS Statistics software was used for all analyses.
Results and discussion
Weighted respondent demographic characteristics—including age, gender, race/ethnicity, education, household income, and geographic region of residence in the US, sexual orientation and relationship status—are presented in Table 1. Women ranged in age from 18 to 93 with a median age of 48 years. The majority of women self-described their sexual orientation as heterosexual (91.2%). Most women were in a married, committed, or dating relationship, with only 21.6% describing their relationship status as single and not dating at the time of the survey.
Prevalence of and pleasure during Angling
As shown in Table 2, 87.5% of women had ever used any form of Angling (i.e., adjusting pelvic—or colloquially, ‘hip’—height or rotation while lying on one’s back or stomach) to increase their sexual pleasure during vaginal penetration. About two-thirds (67.6%) of women had used the sub-form of ‘Angling hips low’ to enhance their pleasure from penetration. A slightly greater proportion of women (83.5%) of women had used the sub-form of ‘Angling hips high’ to enhance their pleasure from penetration.
Prevalence of and pleasure during Rocking
As shown in Table 3, 76.4% of women had ever used any form of Rocking (i.e. the base of a penis or sex toy rubbing against the clitoris constantly during penetration, by staying all the way inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out) to enhance their pleasure during vaginal penetration. Nearly three-quarters of women (70.2%) had ever engaged in Rocking with a penis to make penetration more pleasurable for themselves. In contrast, one-third of women had ever used Rocking with a sex toy (35.8%), to make penetration more pleasurable.
Prevalence of and pleasure during Shallowing
As shown in Table 4, approximately 4 out of 5 women (83.8%) had ever used any form of Shallowing (e.g. being touched just at the entrance to the vagina) to enhance their pleasure during penetration. A majority of women had ever done Shallowing with a penis tip (67.1%) or with a tongue or lips (69.7%) to make penetration more pleasurable. A slightly smaller proportion of women had used Shallowing with a fingertip (60.4%) to enhance their pleasure from penetration. Shallowing was less commonly done with a sex toy (37.8%).
Table 5 illustrates the ways in which women reported that using a Shallowing technique enhanced their sexual pleasure during penetration that followed Shallowing. About 40% of women noted more pleasure, while a quarter reported stronger orgasms. Only 10.1% thought that their likelihood of orgasm was increased. One-third of women (37.4%) suggested that their pleasure was impacted, but in a way that did not follow a specific pattern.
Prevalence of and pleasure during Pairing
As shown in Table 6, 69.7% of women have ever used a Solo Pairing or Partner Pairing technique (e.g. woman stimulating her clitoris with a finger or a partner doing so while the partner simultaneously penetrates her vagina) to make penetration more pleasurable. Forty percent of women had used Solo Pairing to make penetration more pleasurable; about one-third of women had ever done so with a finger, and 20% had ever done so with a sex toy. About half of women had engaged in Partner Pairing to make penetration more pleasurable (49%); Partner Pairing was more commonly done with a finger (43.1%) than with a sex toy (17.5%).
The purpose of this paper was to use U.S. nationally representative probability data to describe specific techniques women use to make vaginal penetration more pleasurable. Because sexual pleasure is a critical element in women’s health and well-being across the life span [1–4], there have been several calls to better understand the subjectivity with which women access and experience enjoyable sex . Extant literature, however, has generally failed to capture the specific approaches that women actually use in everyday life as vehicles to enjoy sex [20, 21]. Using data from the second OMGYES Pleasure Report, this study directly addresses this gap by providing the first detailed, population level description of the of the distinct vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques women engage to enhance their sexual pleasure during both solo and partnered sex. Specifically, through inductive qualitative research, we identified four previously unnamed, but distinct, forms of vaginal stimulation and penetration—Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing—and demonstrated that each, as well as the sub-forms for engaging them, are prevalent among U.S. adult women as a means of making sex more pleasurable.
Capturing the granularity of women’s sexual enjoyment is consistent with a person-centered perspective on sexual pleasure. Such a perspective places emphasis on understanding the ways in which women can scaffold specific skills to increase their access to pleasure [11, 14, 15]. For example, as suggested earlier in this paper, most of what is known—either scientifically or through popular culture—about “how” to access sexual pleasure is focused on the object or body part penetrating the vagina [22–25], a specific body position or sexual behavior [26–32, 35–37], or vague/imprecise terminology [19, 41–47]. The collective gaps left in this knowledge may prevent women and/or their partners from knowing the range of different approaches that exist or how to use them. An important contribution of this work is our provision of actual names/terms for vaginal stimulation and penetration forms as well as our specific yet lay-interpretable definitions and illustrations to describe them. Increasing the availability and accessibility of sexual pleasure language—straightforward and comfortable words and descriptions that women can use  - can help validate for women what they like from vaginal stimulation and penetration and how they would like those techniques performed [12, 65]. This accessible sexual pleasure language could also help provide women and their partners novel ways of considering and communicating about having new stimulation/penetration experiences together . Such increased communication efficacy may have additional downstream, positive implications for both relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction [53–55]. The building of these skills—communication, confidence and negotiation—is resonant with a person-centered framework [11, 14, 15].
An additional limitation contributed by a lack of extant, detailed research on women’s sexual pleasure techniques means that women may use a narrow, socially constructed model as a means to judge their own subjective experiences [16–18]. Our use of nationally representative data permits us to provide a population level analysis of each vaginal stimulation and penetration technique we assessed. Data such as ours provide a means through which women can more fully contextualize the range of their own lived experiences with vaginal penetration. Our assessment of 14 different sub-forms within our four larger Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing forms—as informed by the voices of women themselves—validates both that adult women choose a range of different approaches to vaginal stimulation and penetration to increase their sexual pleasure, and that women actively choose different movements and angles to personalize these approaches. Moreover, we examined the prevalence of each stimulation and penetration technique and their sub-forms and we demonstrated that most women—typically greater than 70%—have found a given technique enhances their sexual pleasure. Our provision of bottom-up generated, population level information supports a larger call for research to more holistically capture what makes sex enjoyable for women . Information such as this allows women to situate and “normalize” their own preferences within the diverse repertoire noted by other women, as well to see that there may be even more techniques for enhancing pleasure during vaginal stimulation and penetration for them to explore.
Limitations and strengths
There are several limitations associated with these data. Our survey was limited to women; we did not survey men to ask about their experiences with vaginal stimulation and penetration techniques and any perceived impacts on their own or their partner’s pleasure. Moreover, we did not include information on how relationship factors may influence women’s participation in and/or their enjoyment of specific techniques. Future work may seek to recruit both dyad members in a relationship as a means of contextualizing a partner’s role in the technique selection and experience process. Furthermore, some survey items assessed technique participation in general, whereas others assessed technique participation in association with sexual pleasure, which could challenge disentangling a participant’s reported use of technique from their motivation for choosing that technique, as well as disentangling their expectation of pleasure from their actual experience of pleasure. A future solution to increase measurement precision could be to assess overall frequency and/or lifetime reports in specific techniques, and to engage contingent questions regarding motivation or expected pleasure, as well as actual pleasure outcomes for those who affirmed participation.
These limitations are balanced with several methodological and substantive strengths of this study. From a methodological perspective, our use of a nationally representative probability sample permits generalization of findings to the broader population of adult women in the United States. Other sampling approaches common in sexual and reproductive health research, including convenience, clinical or community-based recruitment, do not allow this level of comparison. In addition, our use of Ipsos’ KnowledgePanel® affords several data collection advantages, including access to already experienced survey participants, secure survey storage and sending of participation reminders to potential respondents. Ipsos also controls the number of surveys sent to each member, minimizing the unit- and item-level missingness on any given survey. Another methodological strength is online data collection, which facilitates survey completion in a setting of the participant’s choosing, thereby increasing data confidentiality and participant comfort with answering questions about potentially sensitive topics, like sexual behavior and sexual pleasure.
Data from this U.S. nationally representative survey provide descriptions of and prevalence estimates for four techniques women have discovered to make vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, and Pairing. Our findings contribute to the growth of a person-centered approach to sexual pleasure, previously underexplored in published literature, through detailed documentation of specific, newly identified forms of vaginal stimulation and penetration, as well as evaluation of technique prevalence. Knowledge of these techniques can enable women to better identify their own preferences, communicate about them and advocate for their sexual pleasure.
S1 Table. Definitions for and sexually explicit line drawing illustrations of Angling, Rocking, Shallowing and Pairing.
We would like to acknowledge Dr. Debby Herbenick for her contributions to the development of survey items for this study. We would like to thank Dr. Nicole S. Zelin for her participation in drafting and reviewing literature for the manuscript. We would also like to thank Dr. Jennifer Arter & Dr. Sybil Lockhart for their contributions to the pilot qualitative research phase, acquisition of the data, and statistical analysis.
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